Saturday, February 24, 2007

Happiness

Chinese New Year (CNY) was here and every one was busy preparing for CNY.

As I looked at the red greeting cards sent by many well wishers, the common greetings written on card will be Happy Prosperous Lunar New Year or May your new year fill with happiness, prosperity and luck.

What is happiness?

Last Wednesday, Adrian persuaded me to go with him to a lunch gathering. I finally agreed and went along with him. I did not know that it had left me with impression and with the understanding of happiness.

Happiness is not about putting the person with pressure. It is not about changing the person according to your preference or expectation. It is not about one person giving all what he/she has to other person with love.

It is to encourage, build the person up to remain true to oneself. Being true to oneself is like having happiness so that the person is able to share the happiness with other people.

The person will grow up to be wise and is able to love himself/herself first with confidence in the eyes of many people.

Searching for the answers immediately is not the short cut to loving yourself but to have the journey of life long learning with bad and good experience. Facing up to harsh and cruel world out there, it depends on how you make your life interesting even in small country, Singapore.

Making out from your life is your achievement and live your life to fullest through your eyes will make things beautiful. Inner peace will come to individuals as they walk the long journey full of surprises and laughters.

It is happiness. It is my opinion. When I see each individual growing up and move on to new phrase, I m happy because it is their achievement, how big or small but it play vital role in shaping their lives.

Beautiful life is not nothing but with the confidence you will face up to reality and to have practical things to pursue your own dreams. Facing up to reality can be cruel but it gives the person the heart with love and wisdom.

To love yourself and to be true to yourself is the road to happiness.

Love you for what you are and life is beautiful….Never give up till you have your own achievement.

1 Comments:

At 9:51 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey dearie,
how are you doing? I am doing fine. I am working at Florida School for the Deaf and Blind and working at GAP as part time job. I would like to contract you. Pls ask to Adrian about my e mail address. smile I like to read your blog stories. I would like to do for you to read my blog... smile

Best Regard,
Kenichi

 

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